For many, it's not a matter of not wanting to, but not being able to.
'. The most common worry is money. More specifically, a lack of it. The thought of bringing a child into a world where there's such economic uncertainty is terrifying. Even those of us who are privileged, with careers and above-national-average salaries, can't figure out how to have a child and be financially secure and settled.
It's no longer about simply wanting to have children – there's what feels like a tidal wave of reasonsto. As a 26-year-old woman, I'm at the ‘right’ age to be considering it - some of my friends are having babies, but most aren't - and the reasons for this feel chosen for us. We can't even get to the point of self-reflection about whether we want children or if we would find being a parent fulfilling, because it all seems so impossible.
When thinking about it, the question marks are overwhelming: Is it ethical to have a baby when the world feels like it's constantly on the brink of ending? How would I even be able to afford a baby if I did? Where would I have to live to make it affordable? Would I have to give up working? Or work even harder? Is it only a real possibility if I'm in a relationship? And in a relationship with someone earning enough so that I can take maternity leave? Should I be considering my genetics,...
GLAMOUR spoke to 6 women about why they feel the choice of having children has been taken away from them…"At the moment, childcare would eliminate my salary. My partner and I would simply have to be earning a lot more money than we currently are, or we become a single-salary household where I would have to be a housewife. Which I don't want to do. We've pushed back so many milestones, like having kids and getting married, because we wanted a ‘stable’ home.
There's a lot of talk within feminist conversations about ‘having it all’ and whether women can have a career and children. But this conversation is outdated. Because it's not in our hands - it's not an individual decision, it's societal.
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