A non-binary sex worker shares how their identity played a central role in their escorting career and how sex work helped them explore their own identity.
I never expected that sex work would be so helpful in exploring my own identity In German – my first language – the word ‘dear’ is either masculine or feminine: ‘lieber’ or ‘liebe’. This poses a particular problem when it comes to addressing me in letters or emails as a non-binary person . So when a client of mine – George* – stumbled over this hurdle when he wrote an email after our first session together, I felt apprehensive.
Realising that I – in my biologically-female body with my tomboy looks and non-binary attitude – could arouse strangers thrilled me. I never expected it to be so empowering. I gained confidence and started to be more vocal about my identity, including on my escorting profile. Among other things, it currently says: ‘Ich bin Jay, 32, divers, Dorfkind und Wahlberliner*in.’ This translates to: ‘I’m Jay, 32, non-binary, village kid and Berlin-dweller of choice’ .
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